My absolute least favorite question to be asked is:
“What are you thinking about?”
My husband is actually the main culprit when it comes to this question. In fact, I actually hear his voice in my head as I am writing it down lol
Do not get me wrong, I appreciate Kolton being concerned with what is going on in my head, particularly since he asks this almost exclusively when I am clearly struggling with something. That being said, it feels like such a loaded question to the point where my typical response is something like,
“What am I NOT thinking about?”
It is very much like do you want the encyclopedia version? Or the highly condensed, highly edited version? Lol.
I am the worst person when it comes to processing things, so it always feels like I have a laundry list of what is causing my anxiety or silent stewing. All these thoughts can be very overwhelming when it feels as though I am being put on the spot.
Again, I do appreciate the thought. I realize people ask these questions out of concern and care for me, so I hope I am not coming off as ungrateful or anything.
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