The Boredom (DP#170)

Stories in which I struggle to connect with the characters can become a bit of a chore to get through. As a reader, you are going to have feelings of disconnect to a degree since you are already on the outside looking in on the story. When insufferable or just unrelatable characters are in control in the book, it takes me back to my days in school.

The days in which the ‘pick me’ types would be constantly going off about how much they hate their parents, even though you knew their parents, and they literally gave them everything they could ever want. The urge to shut your brain off to the audacity coming out of their mouths is similar to the feelings of mustering through a story involving unrelatable characters.

This trend does not just follow books, but pretty much anything involving people or characters. Movies and shows that are about an OP individual that never faces any real adversity, are my least favorite and the most boring to me. There is a certain amount of character development that only occurs once you have gone through something challenging or painful. Something has to humble us all, so we have that sense of fear in the back of our minds that death and pain are a very real possibility. That there are consequences to our actions. The naivety of some of these main characters in media is mind numbingly boring since I know the ending at that point.

2 responses to “The Boredom (DP#170)”

  1. I’m just doing what you like doing Ash and just be freewheelin’ in my response to your message:

    In early adulthood, I was overly judgmental about characters in films, novels, and even songs. If they didn’t align with my moral code, I dismissed them outright. Over time, I’ve learned to be more open – to enter their worlds on their own terms. When I allow myself to inhabit their perspective, even briefly, my sense of what is “appropriate” loosens, my understanding widens, and I come away feeling oddly liberated.

    Bob Dylan had said something along the lines of: you shouldn’t shut yourself off from things that are ugly – they exist as surely as you and I sitting here. It’s about confronting reality as it is, rather than filtering it through comfort or moral preference.

    It takes a certain courage to face what unsettles us. If you can encounter it without immediately labelling or condemning it according to the narrow limits of your own mindset, you’re usually better for the experience. That, perhaps, is part of maturity: learning to see art as it is, rather than only as you wish it to be.

    1. My empathy game is pretty strong if I do say so myself, sometimes a bit to my own detriment. That being said, I try to understand the motivations of the characters, taking their experiences into consideration. If the character does not line up with the pasts they should have had, that is when I get bored since then they are unrealistic

      I prefer chaos and drama over OP characters that have never experienced any adversity. I love the darkness that people have hidden amongst themselves as it leads to development and growth as you were illuding to.

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