Losing All Possessions (DP#34)

If I were unfortunate enough to lose every little thing I owned, it would be both a time of mourning and self-discovery.

Losing the things I would consider being necessities would be difficult to say the least. Imagine, not having a clean bed to sleep on or any sort of cooking apparatus. You would effectively lose your independence as you would have to scrounge around for the basic necessities of living. Lord willing, you have people in your life who care for you enough to give you a building to stay in, but it would not be your home. I have people I could stay with if this worst-case scenario ever did happen to me, but I would constantly feel like a nuisance. Even though I would be the first person to do something in return like housework to “pay” for my lodging, I would never be able to feel completely comfortable in that position.

On the flip side, when you lose the material things in your life, you realize pretty quickly how little you actually need a lot of stuff. For example, any sort of electronic device. We have become so accustomed to having TVs, computers, and phones that are mainly used for entertainment purposes. You could make an argument that cell phones are a necessity but there is no reason you need the newest and most expensive models. Same with vehicles. As long as you can get to where you need to go, that should be the sole purpose of a car. I would want to use this situation as a culling process, not just for the physical possessions, but for my mind as well. I would realize the true value of things regardless of their price tag and attempt to not feel as tied down to material things.

Realistically, I know I would have a rough time if this were to happen to me, but I would hope I would be resilient enough to bounce back sooner rather than later.

6 responses to “Losing All Possessions (DP#34)”

  1. I could get over losing all of my material possessions. But I couldn’t get over losing my ‘blog’, since I’ve invested more time and effort in it than just about anything else and it contains just about everything I want my family to remember me by, in case something happens..
    Mind you, when I finish my ‘music library project’ and my kids are all grown-up and flown from the nest, I would like to live off grid and sign off from my blog – no computer, no mobile and just go ‘Grizzly Adams’ or the equivalent. hehe.

    1. That is completely understandable. If I did have to go without a computer or even the internet, I would just write out every log with the thought of eventually transcribing them once I get into a better situation.
      Haha yes. The life without having to worry about paying for internet and most other bills would be ideal lol

      1. Hello my friend!

        Digital technology – whether through video games or internet dating (often accompanied by alcohol and nicotine) – has been my undoing in adult life. I often wonder if these wretched, almost demonic temptations hadn’t existed, as they hadn’t in my parents’ era, how differently I might have prioritized and lived my life.

      2. Oh yeah. The worst time of my life was when I was homeschooled, and I was on the computer constantly. I indulged into some sketchy things on the internet. I do think about the previous generations without the internet, but they could find their own ways to entertain themselves with vices lol My grandparents participated in some not so wholesome pastimes themselves.

      3. So I was only homeschooled for about a year and a half lol I went back to public for high school. What I experienced was a way more laid-back learning style. You need a whole lot of self-control and discipline to keep your focus on your work. The fact I was seeing friends less and less made me depressed at times as well, so it was very much a give and take situation.

        Lol my grandpa was a trucker who was pretty stoic and abrasive at times lol You can imagine some of the things he and his buddies got up to. They enjoyed drinking, smoking and shooting. My grandma kind of turned him around a bit though lol

        So my profile picture thing is an AI rendition of a selfie I took so that pic if based off of how I look yes. I tried to get every picture on my posts to look like me at the beginning, but it was too annoying working with Copilot to do it correctly, so I just gave up lol

      4. I can understand how you would require more self control and discipline to undertake Homeschooling. Also the absence of friends would be unsettling. So I’m glad you went back to school.

        Oh, I see..your Grandfather mixed it up and and worked and played hard. It’s curious how generations since then have changed radically, particularly with Millennials and Gen Z’s adopting more sanitary lifestyles and being more health conscious. Smart cookies…I wish I had done that, but such was military culture and it’s tolerance and indeed encouragement of drinking and partying hard, I learnt far too late I’m afraid to turn it all around.

        I like those lovely AI renditions of you. That’s very cool. I put a photo up of ‘yours truly’ on my ‘Good Reads’ profile recently. I’ll send the link below so you can see who you’re writing too. Hehe
        https://www.goodreads.com/photo/user/16765229-matthew-richmond

        I hope you are already into weekend mode. What do you like to do on your weekends? Do you ‘down-tools and go into relax mode? How is your house project going and do you still have your niece with you? I assume you don’t have children of your own?
        Cheers friend.

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